Dating a Separated Man
Geplaatst op 19-06-2025
Categorie: Lifestyle
Well, here I am now eleven days into my “official” break up with my boyfriend. This time is the second time and by his doing; the first one was my doing. Let me start off by saying that everyone told me so, not just my parents, or my girlfriends or guy friends, but everyone! Everyone said he is not divorced, he is only separated, and you will end up hurt. I argued my case against them as to why it wasn’t doomed from the start. Little did I know.
So here’s the low down on my eight-month relationship with a separated man. Ok, so I met him and it was just like the fairy tale said: I had this intense connection with this man from the very moment we met. As time went on and I would spend every free night he had, which of course was made free by me, together. Whenever he didn’t have his kids, he was spending the time with me, which was every other weekend and every other two days, for two days. I had the schedule down. I had my bags packed before he would pick me up. I mean, I was ready to see this man. He would pick me up at the door and I would smile like there was nothing else in the world except him. I fell so hard for him, and just adored him. Anyway, we dated like that for eight months. He always had told me if his wife ever asked him for another chance to make the marriage work, he would feel obligated to take it. He always told me he never thought she would, but then he never filed for a divorce either.
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As time went by, I fell for this hard. Six months into the relationship, his wife drives past him taking me home in the morning, with the kids in her car. Mind you, I have not met any of his family or children at all. I did meet his good friends and get along with them great still. When we drove around town, I noticed he would only take me to certain places, and not others for fear of being seen. I kept accepting his answers or rather excuses every time he dished them out. What started happening to me though was terrible. Here I was living this way that did not mesh with the values I have at all. I loved him and tried to say that it was ok, what was going on. Then when she saw us together the first time, he said she had started treating him differently. That lasted one week, and so did that break up. I told him to go figure his shit out and then let me know what’s going on. Like I said, one week. So I get back with him. Ask the questions I thought I needed to ask like, “Is it over?” You’re not trying to make it work any more? She is not trying to make it work any more?” He answered no to all and said it is not a matter of me getting divorced, it is a matter of when. Mistake number one for me: I believed him. I wanted to love him so bad that I chose to ignore the feelings I was having inside about this. Oh yeah, her interest in him only lasted, yep you guessed, one week.
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Anyway, after the second breakup she saw us again, and this time he saw the ever famous “look in her eyes.” He said he could see she still loved him, and maybe she did. We broke up that night. I really can’t remember what the first 4–5 days were really like for me. I cried so much; I could not function. My heart truly felt as if it had literally broke. I could not believe the amount of hurt I had over this break up. So, he is back with her trying to put the family back together, and I am trying to put me back together. Only this time, I am going to do it right. I’m going to take the time to see why I choose to stay in this relationship to the point I did. Why did I settle for so little? Do I think that little of myself? Or did I just truly believe he was the one I had been waiting for? I do know that it is time to heal my heart and make myself a stronger, better person for going through this. At least I do know I can still love. Even after two divorces and heartbreak, I still have not lost the capacity to truly love, but this time I am starting with me.